All this stuff about open marriage. I relate to it. I relate to open marriage. It is one way of trustin the other. To be transparent. And that is love. But, you don’t want your husband or wife to act on their feelings. You can’t. Cos that will hurt. That will really hurt. I mean..think about it… You sleep with another person. You tell your husband. What will his reaction be? Will he be like…’wow’, she is so truthful!!. Mmmm….. he is rather gonna be very very sad. Broken.
I do relate to open marriage. In the sense…you share what you feel. How many married people do that? How many married people speak their minds to each other?
Speaking, and loving is what open marriage is all about. I mean....you got to be mad about this person. Only when your mad, you share. And humans are meant to share. How else did we last for this long?
Marriage/Love is all about sharing and realising (it might take time) that there is this one person who will be there for your growth. It is standing naked in front of this person and letting him/her see what’s inside you. What you think, what your inabilities are, where the beautiful part of you is. Some other times, it is standing naked in front of this person. Quiet literally! And knowing that you could do it with this person alone.
Marriage is where marriage evaporates and love stays. For a very long time. Hopefully for ever after!
